Agreed 100%. The decision of whether or not to abort should always be the woman's to make; but the man should have the option (prior to the delivery) of what role, if any, he wishes to play in the unborn child's life. If the decision was kept from him and he doesn't find out about the child's existence until AFTER the child is born, it's a grayer area (because he's being blindsided with the information, after the fact), but the question of autonomy should still rest with the biological father in that scenario.