"As for men in general .... why is it so hard for men to just being decent human beings and treat others with respect? That's all. Men can have their individual personalities, full of insecurities and doubts - pretty much what everyone suffers from."

But that's the cognitive dissonance that Chris is (rightfully) putting on trial, within this article he's written.

Either we're too stoic ("toxic masculinity") or too emotional ("male fragility"). We're damned if we do, and damned if we don't.

Sort of like how women want to also be able to escape the Lose/Lose binary imposed upon them, right?