Being a gay man, Victoria's Secret has never been relevant to my life. But, objectively speaking, I'd agree with your overall point that the company SHOULD be accommodating the needs of women who are its customers. Isn't that what free market advocates are always saying?

More generally speaking: everyone should wear whatever style of clothing makes one feel comfortable or confident. Period.

If anyone wants a sexual relationship with their partner, both people should be willing to navigate the give-and-take that makes BOTH of them feel mutually empowered, equal, and impassioned.