But the difference is that she is ranking her intellect and character above MOST PEOPLE, regardless of that person's attributes. Whether you or I view that as individual narcissism (on her part) is beside the point.
"Most men are superior to women at most things in life most of the time" is an example of misogyny.
"Most women are superior to men at most things in life most of the time" is an example of misandry.
They are equally as immoral, even when acknowledging that misogyny is more systemic than misandry.
There's simply no getting around it.