How can we truly know the disproportion of sexual assault, rape, and domestic abuse between women and men -- when everybody already pretty much universally acknowledges that these cases are UNDERREPORTED amongst both women and men alike? Do quantitative differences really make that much of a difference if we can reasonably assume the actual cases (including unreported ones) number in the millions (targeting people of all gender identities) across the spectrum?

Furthermore, how prevalent is heteronormativity expected to remain, within feminist thought? Even those who self-identify as intersectional feminists so often refer to households according to the conventions of a traditional nuclear family. Where does that leave families headed by same-sex couples, or those where at least one parental figure happens to be transgender, nonbinary, genderfluid, two-spirit, or intersex?

These exclusions are often what people (including myself) are so irate about, when we rail against "White Cis Feminism"...