I agree with many of your sentiments, here.

My main disagreement is your generic usage of "feminism" or "feminists."

To me, the archetype of human behavior that you're describing would be more accurately framed as "neofeminism" or faux-feminism. I know many women who consider themselves feminists who genuinely want equality and prosperity for EVERYONE across the board. They're just usually not the loudest ones in the room.