I agree with you that Zoomers and Alphas are being socialized much differently than Millennials, Xers, Boomers, Traditionalists, and the even older generations were.

I guess what I'd look at would be: which elements of such socialization are harmful, versus which norms practiced by Gen Z and Gen AA are now a step up from those which were learned by Gen Y and older?

It's a matter examining what today's youth is doing better than previous generations...and where returning to some of the older ways could potentially benefit them.