I remember that part of your exit interview with Julie, when you'd mentioned how Dustin always would make coffee for you in the morning and it felt like your husband was there with you momentarily.
I'm generally more "conservative" than most gay people, when it comes to my politics...although I'm still apparently "too liberal" for the taste of many folks on the Right -- including my parents, haha! ;-P
I suspect they also used private investigators for the season immediately following yours, since BB9 had the "Til Death Do Us Part" theme where oneof the couples was dating (but they were split apart by the twist) and the other were exes (who were paired together by the twist).