I want to make sure I understand your first sentence...

Are you saying that misandry is intended to be a teachable response where the inflictor is vainly trying to get misogynistic men to realize how misogynistic they are being? (or, short of that, to help crystallize it for observers)

It's an intentional exercise to essentially force misogynists to digest the message of, "See! This doesn't feel so great, does it? Do you see how monstrously you are behaving when you succumb to misogyny and patriarchy?"...???