I'm going to push back against part of your narrative, UNLESS, of course, I've misconstrued what you're trying to say...

It sounds as though you are "ranking" oppression related to race ABOVE oppression related to sexual orientation. In some cases, that would be true. In other cases, it would be flipped.

Also, you seem to insinuate that youth trumps middle-aged status, in most scenarios. I'd counter that middle-aged people often have distinct advantages over BOTH "young" and "old" people (never mind conflicting definitions over what ages actually designate somebody as "young" versus "old").