I'm in a somewhat similar situation. Rural area, absolutely zero LGBT community/culture in my small town. Nice enough people, but not much visible "family" with whom I can "talk Queer." For me, this isolation is even further compounded by my disability and income bracket.

If you ever want to Skype or Zoom, DM me. I know it isn't the same as the close physical intimacy you mention, but it's the next-best thing.