I'm not an advocate of cancel culture, either. I just wonder how self-aware Shruthi's friend/acquaintance is, in regard to her own behavior.

I think we all have work to do on our own self-awareness, and you could be right that this particular woman is on the extreme end of that spectrum simply in terms of her personality. But that doesn't make it right (or smart) for her to hide behind the mantle of "feminism" if she's going to willfully and knowingly choose to persist in those behaviors.