It sounds as though you're processing the complexities of such issues in a way that ANY person who wants to be an ally to any other group (with which they don't identity or belong to) would.

I love what you've written about neither privileged groups nor oppressed groups being a monolith. I think if we utilize the opportunity to hear the full array of dissenting views from WITHIN every such group, it gives us all, collectively, a more valuable context as to how to proceed forward together.