It's certainly a tall order, for all of us, isn't it?

As a woman, one of your best avenues for allyship toward Nonconforming Men would be to gain knowledge of different groups or individual leaders who promote "healthy masculinity" (I refer to it as "nutric masculinity"), and, that way, you have a ready-to-go list of potential resources for any boys/men you encounter (online or offline) who express how sick they are of being confined to "the man box."

Of course, not all sources of commentary/leadership are going to resonate the same way with every man (or every boy), and that's okay. That's the beauty of heterodox thought. And it's why the list of resources (not that you individually keep, personally; but, rather, in terms of our collective zeitgeist) should be long and robust.