My apologies if it sounded like a direct accusation that I was making toward you. Many people do indeed try to make that claim, so if I seem overly-sensitive to such a suggestion, it's because there are people out there who seem to care more about who is targeted by the act...rather than the fact that the act itself is occurring in the first place.
And, as I'll reiterate, I pretty much agreed with a bulk of the other points you made throughout this article (outside of your chosen wording about male rape).