Overall, very well-written and thought-provoking, Nicole. I would like to offer a couple of additional thoughts.

First, I think we need to account for grey areas. In many cases, the person who wants sex is taking advantage of the physically/emotionally-incapacitated state of their partner. So, let's not allow any wiggle room for those who would insist, "Once your clothes come off, it can no longer be considered rape."

Secondly, an overarching problem within the context of many feminist narratives is that much of it still seems to be centered on the experiences of heterosexual cisgender (usually White) women. This especially renders invisible the experiences that transgender people, gay men, and male children (legal minors) have with enduring/resisting (or trying to resist) rape culture. This risks setting up a false binary where people can begin arguing that you must have specific anatomy, be of a specific age, or have a specific socioeconomic background in order to be considered a "true" rape survivor -- and anybody falling outside of that dichotomy is suddenly gaslighted as an #AllLivesMatter pariah.

But I want to give you accolades for bringing this provocative angle into the public consciousness -- and, hopefully, your perspective here can help ALL OF US to develop a universal and gender-inclusive platform of Consent Education.