Rachel -- totally agree with you 100% on all of this. I make sure I'm always trying to learn from transgender people who wish to share your experiences...because it isn't something I can directly understand (as a cisgender person) myself, but I can always become more educated as a supporter and an ally. And it's clear, from your comments, that you feel similarly about gay/lesbian/bisexual cis members of the community. *HUGS*