So, you are naturally heterosexual? If that's the case, then you are who you are...and nobody has the right to attempt to pressure you into "turning gay."

Not only would it be unfair to you...but it further marginalizes those of us who were born with LGBT identities. Often times, there seems to be this assumption that Queer people can just "will ourselves" to become heterosexual, as though it's an on/off switch that we're refusing to flip.

What is so "insecure" about that position (stated above) of mine?