Some great tips and red-flags to watch out for, Rebecca!

A nuanced question that I have, although I realize there may not be a definitive answer to it: how do people reconcile disparate perspectives (even amongst BIPOC, specifically) as to what constitutes "fragility"?

If no group is a monolith, then it seems as though the answer would likelier be found in broad conceptual truth-telling, rather than in rigid dogma? (and please know that I'm not accusing YOU of spreading dogma; I'm thinking moreso about other public figures who have weighed in).