Thank you, Orrin!

Well, for me, it's not that I "can't" get laid...it's that my autism makes me overly-cautious, and my status as a "gay side" also reduces the number of gay/bi men in the prospective dating pool for me.

I'm not sure I understand the Tom Cruise reference made by the woman whom you mentioned...but you're right: for self-proclaimed feminists who feel that men "in general" are too obsessed with sex, they sure are quite obsessed themselves over the LACK OF sex life enjoyed by men who are part of incel culture.