You packed a lot of phenomenal content into one article, and I applaud you for that. You've raised a lot of important points that many people would automatically dismiss, if they heard those same ideas from me, solely because I'm White.
I do think one problem is how, within #hyperwoke vernacular, people tend to substitute the term "whiteness" as a synonym for "white supremacy."
The easiest way to avoid this would be to simply get everyone more comfortable with saying "white supremacy"...rather than running elitist seminars on how to "be less [w]hite."