You're also forgetting the men who rarely date -- and, for the sake of argument, let's exclude the incels, for a moment, here -- due to any of the following factors:

-- overloaded schedules

-- geographic limitations

-- autism and other mental health factors

-- self-consciousness

-- extreme shyness

-- lack of "conventional" cosmetic male beauty

-- downward mobility

-- social pressures/intimidation affecting LGBT men

Out of the entire male population, there is a significant chunk of us who aren't actively dating, for one reason or another -- but yet, our ranks seem to be ignored amidst the "bad guys who are actively dating" or the "good guys who are actively dating."